“Oh, I’m happy being single so I don’t need a man but if I meet the right one, then I’ll be happy to get into a relationship”.
My friend, Rick, was looking for the Queen to his King and mother to his future children.
He’d ask women what they were looking for and he heard all the variations of this response and thought “what would she possibly need ME for?”
Intelligent, attractive, wealthy and a champion for the underprivileged, he attracted many amazing women.
And I talk to a lot of clients who say they want a man just like Rick.
But unfortunately, women often seem to be reading from a different rule book.
So, as ambitious, accomplished women, they sometimes feel like they need to show they’re independent.
That they can handle it all on their own….
And that they need to be coy.
But here’s that’s why that’s pushing away the king that they say they want to attract.
So, for a guy like Rick who’s looking for a woman to settle down with, and all he sees is someone who comes across as SO independent, he can’t see space for him in her life.
And he’ll assume that she doesn’t need somebody like him.
See how there’s a mismatch there?
Here’s the deal—a man who KNOWS he wants is going to set his sights on a woman who CLARIFIES that she wants the same thing.
When you’re fully expressed, he will gravitate towards YOU.
The King & Queen find one another when BOTH are in alignment.