Feminine Energy In Dating

August 11, 2022 Melissa Audrey

Have you been wondering whether on not you need feminine energy in dating to find the right guy?

Is it a gimmick?

Does feminine energy in dating have any merit?

Keep reading and decide for yourself!👇🏽

And be sure to read about masculine vs feminine energies and their qualities so that you can deepen your understanding.

What Is Feminine Energy? The 7 Best Ways To Be More Feminine

What Is Masculine vs Feminine Energy In Dating?

The 7 Best Ways To Date With Feminine Energy

In this blog post, I’ll cover:

a brief explanation of what polarity is and why you want it in dating
3 signs you may be dating in masculine energy and WHY you may be doing so
Whether or not it’s even necessary for you to radiate feminine energy in dating

Polarity and Feminine and Masculine Energies

Happy, healthy partnerships thrive when there is polarity.

Polarity is about the DIFFERENCES we have with another person.

And this creates a spark and healthy tension✨

It’s the quality of contrasting and complimentary energies between two people.

You have both feminine and masculine energies in your body and you can choose to be more in your feminine energy.

By doing so, you’ll be taking on the opposite polarity of your man (assuming that he’s a more solid, masculine energy man).

And the physical, sexual, emotional attraction will ramp up.

It may seem strange and counter-intuitive to be more in your feminine but ease into it, anyway.

3 Signs You’re Dating In Masculine Energy

So how do you know if you’re operating in masculine energy while dating?

Here’s a framework for how this looks:

Masculine energy mode means doing, thinking, planning and completing an action, in a way that has you thinking and strategizing from a got-to-get-this-done and I-have-to-figure-this-out and I-need-this-outcome frame of mind.

#1. You are the organizer and planner.

You’re constantly moving towards a man (leaning forward).

You’re the one who often reaches out first most of the time, strategize about how you can see a man again, nudge him to make sure he knows you’re available, etc.
This is because you feel that if you’re not moving things forward, he won’t and you won’t get anywhere with him with no efforts on your part.

#2. You’re always up in your head.

You're trying to figure out TOO SOON if this man is husband or boyfriend material.

There’s a certain goal or outcome that you’re looking for—and you’re striving to reach it as soon as possible.

You may ask your date too many questions because you’re trying to figure out his intentions.

You hyper-analyze what he says and does and try to plan what to say next.

#3. On a date, you attempt to manage everything.

You don't like going with the flow.

You want to decide the activity of the date, the location, how to get there, where to park, how long to stay, etc.

Now imagine how good you’ll feel when embody your natural feminine state, which is softer, more yielding, nurturing, receptive and vulnerable.

When there are two similar energies operating at the same time, a romantic relationship cannot thrive.

The ideal balance is complimentary - masculine and feminine.

This is important if you want to have a magnetic, alluring, sexy, and open vibe.

And trust me, I GET that getting into your feminine energy after you’ve been using your masculine energy all day long can be a challenge.

Especially if you have kids, pets and household duties to attend to after your workday is over.

And if you’re a career woman or a business owner, with all the different hats you wear, this is even more of a challenge.

It can sometimes feel like you need to “earn” getting time off to be in your feminine energy.

What I suggest is to ease into embodying your feminine energy.

It takes time to implement new habits.

Yet you can start right away!

Start slowly and incorporate new habits in your daily life.

I encourage you to find the practices that feel aligned to YOU.

✨ You’ll be richly rewarded by feeling calmer and in tune with your body.

✨ AND attraction with a man will be super-charged.

This is one of the magic ingredients to enjoying a more fulfilling life.

And having MORE polarity and attraction in your dating life or romantic relationship.

You can check out this post for the 7 best ways to connect to your feminine energy.

Is it necessary to radiate feminine energy in dating?

What if you enjoy being in your masculine energy?

And that feels more natural to you?

You may wonder why you should change who you are and put on a ‘performance’ of feminine energy.

And you may also wonder why you can’t just stay your authentic self and not worry about this masculine/feminine stuff.

Here’s how I see it: if you’re happy with your life and you don’t feel overworked, depleted, fatigued and stressed most of the time…

AND you’re happy with your dating life and the men you’re attracting, then maybe you wouldn’t benefit that much for getting into your feminine energy more.

However, after speaking with hundreds of women, I know that the above scenario is the exception rather than the rule.

Because most women are in their masculine energy out of necessity rather than choice.

That’s why it may feel like it’s the more natural energy to be in.

Understand that they have conditioned us from the time we were little girls that our worth and our value come from our accomplishments and what we DO.

Rather than just owning our worth simply by BEING who we are–inherently worthy human beings.

Women have been fine-tuning their masculine traits and qualities in order to succeed in the world.

So, the absolute best advice I can give you is to embody your feminine energy more for your life IN GENERAL - rather than as a performance tactic to attract a man.

Do it because you want to feel more relaxed, receive more, allow men and others to give to you, and have more fun.

At the end of the day, pretty much everyone wants to wind down, de-stress and get out of their head for a while.

Isn't this what you want also?

Then you’ll definitely want to read:

✨ What Is Feminine Energy? The 7 Best Ways To Be More Feminine