It was a long time ago...I went through a long period of several years where I didn’t like men.

I didn’t enjoy the attention I got from them and SO much more….

I complained about them, bashed them to whoever would listen. This was at a time when this sort of thing wasn’t so common.

Like it is today. 

I would vent. 

Quite angrily. And my audience(friends and colleagues) would just look at me in silence and listen. 

They didn’t join in…

Fast forward to today.  It has become quite commonplace for women to vent, namecall, male-bash, etc. 

I see this all over social media and the Interwebs. And in real life.

At one point I learned the painful way that it did more harm than good.

If you're a single woman desiring to be in a beautiful relationship with a man, it would be a wise move to look at the people and see if they’re in alignment with your love desires.

When you’re hanging out with friends, whether they’re in real life friends or virtual ones, who’re complaining that there aren’t good men, venting without looking at their own shortcomings or any such negativity, this will have a PROFOUND  influence on you.

Whether you’re aware of it or not.

Choose your people carefully.

Remember that rich people don’t become rich by hanging out with poor people without money goals and who think money is the root of all evil.

Spending time with people who are happily coupled and single friends who know without a doubt that there’s an abundance of good men in the world.

Experience the difference this can make for your own outlook on your own love life.

Do you know anyone who needs to read this?

How have your people influenced your love life? 

I’d be curious to know.