Melissa Audrey, Dating, Love & Relationship Coach

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3 Tips To Help You Feel Worthy Of Love


🧟‍♀️Are you going about like a dead woman in love & romance?



I’ll explain that in a moment. 



But first👇


Here’s your reminder that you don’t have to be, do or have anything to be worthy of love. 


None of those things are necessary to be worthy of the Love of Your Life.



Hell no!



I feel you though. I’ve been there. 



I thought I wasn’t worthy because of my teeth (among other reasons)



Because of my enamel, dentin, pulp and cementum. What a lousy excuse!



WORTHINESS

IS NOT dependent on external factors

  • like what other people think and say about you

  • Nor does it have anything to do with what you’ve accomplished

  • your appearance



It doesn’t mean ANYTHING about your worthiness if

  • Your last 2 exes cheated on you

  • You got ghosted on the dating apps

  • Your mom didn’t tell you she loved you as a child

  • Your father was absent

  • You have dust bunnies creating colonies all over your home

  • And it MOST definitely doesn’t matter that you’ve spent the whole week wearing the same pyjamas all day. 



Do your laundry PLEASE.

And get rid of the dust mite poop also, okay? 💩



But start with the laundry of your mind. 


I want you to understand that your worth is inherent and intrinsic. 


From the moment you were born you were worthy AND you will be until you draw your very last breath.

☝🏽 I say this with all the respect to the dearly departed.

You’re alive, you’re breathing and you have a freaking pulse.

🧟‍♀️ So stop acting and thinking like a DEAD woman in love and life.

Okay?


You’re alive ✔️ = WORTHY


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Your worthiness doesn't fluctuate. 

Nor does it waver according to circumstances. 

Got it? Good. 

It’s fixed and steady. 

It’s really that simple. 



Don’t argue with me on this.

And don’t make me get on a plane to fly over there to reiterate this to you in person. 

Because I won’t be sweet about it like I am to you here.

It won’t be pretty.

Own your worth. In love and life.



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